I ran into some friends from college, including an old boyfriend. He seemed upset with me because I had told him that I was ready for new things and that we weren’t meant to be. He hadn’t treated me well at all. He treated me poorly when we were together and I didn’t want that anymore. I was ready to meet someone who was kind, good, and respectful. I wished the old boyfriend wasn’t bitter about the breakup. It was years ago. I would’ve liked to continued being friends. I wondered why he kept coming to the restaurant he knew I worked at when he knew I could be there. Then I ran into a friend from college. She was going to be on the college dance team again that we both used to be on. I said oh I’d love to do that too. I figured I’d be too old to be accepted, but if she could do it, then I should be above to as well. It was exciting to think about.
This dream suggests that you are reflecting on past relationships and making decisions about what you want in your future relationships. Running into your old college friends, including your ex-boyfriend, may represent unresolved feelings or memories from your past that are resurfacing. The fact that your ex-boyfriend seemed upset with you may indicate lingering emotions related to that past relationship, particularly feelings of guilt or regret for not standing up for yourself and choosing to be treated poorly.
Your desire to find someone kind, good, and respectful indicates a strong need for positive and healthy relationships in your life. The dream may be urging you to prioritize your own well-being and not settle for mistreatment in any future relationships. Your wish for your ex-boyfriend to not be bitter about the breakup and to continue being friends suggests a desire for closure and a sense of peace with your past.
Seeing your friend joining the college dance team again and considering doing the same yourself symbolizes a desire for excitement and new opportunities in your life. It signifies a willingness to embrace new challenges and experiences, even if you may initially doubt your ability to do so. This part of the dream may be encouraging you to pursue your passions and goals, regardless of any perceived limitations or obstacles.
Overall, this dream may be highlighting the need for closure and healing from past relationships, as well as emphasizing the importance of self-respect, setting boundaries, and pursuing opportunities for personal growth and fulfillment in the future.